“You’re great just the way you are! Why do you want to lose weight?”

losingweightanywayican:

Well, I’m glad you asked. It’s because I want…

  • To stop being the fat friend
  • To finally be thinner than my bully, who’s gained tons of weight
  • To be small enough for my future boyfriend to pick me up with ease
  • To hear “you’re so beautiful” instead of “you’re so funny”
  • To clear my plate without judgement from others
  • To be able to eat less, but feel more full
  • To wear clothes that fit the style I want
  • To not be told I “got lucky” to be dating a thin guy
  • To be one of those thin bitches that everyone is jealous of
  • To not be judged for being “unhealthy”
  • To feel comfortable naked
  • To rock a bikini
  • To finally wear shorts without uncomfortably tugging at them to try and cover my fat legs
  • To not anxiously pull my shirt from stomach for fear that my fat is “too obvious”
  • To have my boobs touch the wall before my stomach does
  • To shock my family and friends with how nice and thin I look
  • To not be scared of stepping on the scale, no matter where I am
  • To have an actual jaw line instead of a double chin
  • To be a success story and not a failure
  • To. Not. Be. Fat.

down-to120lbs:

This is for the time…

your family made such harsh comments about your weight that you cried in the bathroom after dinner

This is for the time, you had to hide under layers of clothing and make excuses for why you couldn’t go swimming with your friends in summer

This for the time, you were called “The big girl”, “Piggie” or just plain “Fat”

This is for the time, you gorged on cake and chocolate and wanted to throw up

This is for the time, you gorged on chips and pretzels and threw up

This is for the time, you tried to squeeze into a pair of high waisted jeans and couldn’t even fit your calves

This is for the time, you saw the photo someone took of you and felt your self-esteem plunge

This is for the time, you couldn’t wear shorts out because your thighs would chafe

This is for the time, your best friend got to kiss the boy, who you ached for everyday

This for the time, you wanted to punch the mirror and watch the shards fall to the floor

This is for the time, you wept for the beautiful girl hidden in a fortress of fat

This is for every single time that your weight held you back

But now, this time is the time you can be the girl you always wanted to be

bepislight:

pudgebugg:

Friends!

I found this place called eatthismuch.com that takes your calorie budget and gives you a day of recipes to fill it! You can adjust for vegan options as well. They give you meal plans for as low as 400 calories per day, not the usual recommended 1200. They have all kinds of meal options so if you don’t like what they offer, you can just refresh and get new recipes!

good thing about this is that they assume that you use oil. I personally feel uncomfortable using oil when restricting because it is so high cal (I mean do you want a spoon of oil or a hugeeee fucking bowl of salad or fruit or even a bit of candy). I tried this site out and I really like it. Just be careful when regenerating a meal. It can happen that they suggest a meal to you that is over your cal limit

slytherthin:

little motivation for us all

do it for the thrill of seeing how close you are to your goal- finally.

do it so when you drop something while sitting it falls to the ground instead of wedging between your thighs.

do it so everyone sees a dancer in you, even if you have no rhythm.

do it for oversized sweatshirts and tiny skirts.

do it so that when you go on a roller coaster the seatbelt is still loose even when it’s tightened as far as it will go.

do it so you can sneak to the front of concerts and no one will ever notice you slipping past them.

do it and when they ask what your diet is, smile serenely and tell them a pretty lie.

do it with grace and kindness to the others doing it with you.

do it for every person who never believed you could.

do it because you CAN.

do it for you.

ode-noir:

some thinspo

  • eating cleaner will clear up your skin drastically and give it a brighter, more radiant look – cut out added sugar!
  • hipbones are considered to be inherently feminine and therefore really attractive
  • your body deserves the best so stop putting junk and crap inside it, nourish it instead
  • your face will look more defined
  • use the time you’d spend binging to study instead or do something productive that will actually benefit you
  • think about your long term health, not just being skinny – you want to live a long, healthy life so work for it
  • it’s easier to shop for clothes and clothes will look better at a smaller size, even the most casual outfits
  • those with conservative parents – it’s easier to look modest when you have less fat on you

ccbones:

I want to lose weight

  • for prominent collarbones
  • for a ribcage that shows even when I’m not sucking in
  • for sharp hipbones
  • for a thighgap I can fit my first through
  • for bony hands that make pictures look so much more aesthetic
  • for a perfect jawline
  • for high cheekbones that add emphasis to my face
  • for my eyes and lips to look bigger
  • for tiny wrists
  • for a waist that fits a choker around it
  • so I can wear bracelets around my ankles
  • for no more fat fingers!!
  • so all of me can be skinny and I can finally be happy
  • so I can walk into a clothing store and know I won’t find my size because they dont carry XXS instead of XL

sticksandskin:

you know what could be the saddest thing?

you don’t reach your goal weight and you’ll miss all the trends that go by. High-waisted shorts, button up skirts, turtlenecks, funky glasses, windbreakers. you’ll miss this generation’s moments of fashion bc you’ll be too big to pull it off. sad

BEST FEELINGS

wantssstobeskinny:

1. Emptiness, being able to tell you have gone without eating for a long time, knowing you’re one step closer to your goal

2. Finishing a fast, the longer the better it feels

3. Wanting to binge, but doing something else instead

4. Seeing a change in your body in pictures

5. Smaller sizes slowly starting to fit you

6. Seeing your weight get closer and closer to your goal, dropping more each day

7. Getting dizzy and lightheaded, evidence that you are doing well

8. Refusing food or throwing it away

9. Having the self control to only buy zero calorie drinks when out with friends 

10. Looking in the mirror and seeing your body getting smaller

thinningchance:

xxbeliefxxx:

Okay, but, there is literally no reason you won’t lose weight. If you keep restricting and fasting and exercising, there’s literally NO way you won’t lose weight. You will reach your goal weight, no doubt, unless you give up. Keep yourself controlled, and there’s no way you won’t reach it. Even if it takes ages, but just think. All you need to do today is exercise and restrict, and tomorrow you’ll wake up closer to your goal. Repeat, repeat, repeat, and you will get there.

this is some of the most motivating shit ever